Let me first start this off by saying everything I write in this article is based on my own experience with dating Chinese girls. I am actually Asian myself (Chinese-Japanese), so I am writing this from an Asian male’s perspective. That being said I do feel that I understand my own culture and have pretty much exclusively dated Chinese girls my whole life, so if you are looking for some dating advice on how to meet and successfully court a Chinese girl hopefully this article helps you. Again there are exceptions to the rules, but if you follow the tips below you should be able to do well with most Chinese girls.
Understand The Difference Between Mainland Chinese Girls and Americanized Ones
The first thing you need to do when trying to court Chinese girls is figure out whether they are Americanized or not. Asian-American (born and raised in America) Chinese girls will be obviously a lot more open to what I call “Western Style” dating than Chinese girls from mainland China. Girls who are actually from China will be more traditional and need to be approached differently.
Above all though regardless if you have an Americanized Chinese girl or not, both cultures require you to be courteous and polite. These are standard Asian values, and are just good manners in general.
Americanized Chinese girls will probably be more open to adventurous activities (clubbing, hiking, camping etc) while traditional Chinese girls will probably prefer quieter activities (dinners, movies etc). Again these are generalizations and there exceptions to the rule, but I have found for the most part this to be true.
Where To Meet Chinese Girls
If you are into meeting Americanized Chinese girls (in their twenties) you’ll probably find them at clubs (Asians like clubs over bars usually) if you live in any mid-large city in America. Another great place to look for Chinese girls are at your local coffee shops and karaoke bars.
Generally if you are looking to meet Chinese girls from mainland China, you’ll probably have to either meet them through friends or some class at your local college. Another great way to meet Chinese girls are through Asian dating sites. There are many sites that will help you meet Chinese Women online that can easily help you to find single Chinese girls if you’re having trouble meeting them through more traditional means.
Be Confident But Not Arrogant
Above all if you want to successfully court a Chinese girl whether Americanized or not, you need to be confident but not arrogant! Remember Asia is for the most part a male-dominated culture, so you have to assert yourself and take control over the courtship. However that being said, arrogance is frowned upon in the Asian culture, and the quickest way to bomb a date with a Chinese girl is to be an arrogant jerk. Asian culture values humility, and you need to walk that fine line between confidence and arrogance if you want to succeed.
So there you have it, some simple tips that will help you to meet and date Chinese women. Follow the above advice and you should be able to do alright with most Chinese girls. Remember Chinese girls are some of the most beautiful women on the planet and should be treated with respect and dignity. So treat them well and you will be rewarded. Good luck.